Heartbreak, Relationships and Spirituality
Your love life has entered a spontaneous state of change, why? For spiritual growth! Beyond the seeming heartbreak, despair, guilt, regret, sadness and chaotic mind chatter, there is a gift.
But before you discover the gift, you must experience these emotion-driven, thought filled experiences because we are human beings and the reality is, life is not always the perfect blissful state. However that state always exists within us and in-fact, learned where this place of peace and divine love exists within us is key to any healthy transition in life.
When life throws us a curve ball and emotions/thoughts arise, be mindful of what arises, what you fixate on, what you judge. That which arises are some of the deepest insecurities and once you can identify these thoughts and emotions within yourself, not projecting them on "others" behavior, but rather realizing they exist within you from past/present issues you have not dealt with, then you can find the gift.
Identification is just the first step. Once you identify them, you are then prepared for the next step which is the ultimate reason why you are experiencing this rocky patch in your love life which is...To love yourself!
Yes! Love Yourself!
A major reason we are given opportunities like losing the love of our lives is so that we can identify our own insecurities, our own fears and heal them with love. If you aren't given a dark moment such as losing a loved one, these deep seated insecurities may lie dormant the rest of your life just waiting for the next opportunity for your to wake up and love yourself.
We believe that it is the others duty to love us because we have said, "I love you" and agreed to be partners and while others can afirm love for you, ultimately, if you ever want another to fully love you, you must first love you. All of you! The insecurities, the hurt child within you seeking attention and care as well as all the bright and shiny parts of yourself! Yay me!
And so, we learn that our deepest of challenges are but gifts for growth, for love, and most importantly, the rare opportunity to be human and actually feel the range of emotions.
